Footsteps To Freedom

It is okay to leave someone for better and not feel badly about it. Even if you are married, you sometimes must let things go and move on in your life. We attach ourselves to people and think they are the people for envision things to be something they are not. People change and things fall apart. We must know for ourselves if we are in a toxic relationship or a normal relationship. According to OML.com, a normal relationship has its difficulties. A toxic relationship, however, put you in a black hole of self-doubt and guilt. It is never easy, especially when you are still in love. Your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows.” Sometimes we cannot follow our heart, we must follow our common sense. We often stay in a relationship too long waiting for others to change, but they do not change because they are who they are. We think we can hold out and wait for them to see what they are doing and saying to us is hurtful and demeaning, but they never see it because they believe what they are saying is

 truth. A healthy relationship should never make you question who you are or your worth. When that happens, it is a good sign you are in a relationship too long. Toxic relationship always make you second guess and question yourself because of what your partner says. Ourmindfullife.com has a wonderful quote “The minute that you start to wonder if you deserve better, you do.” If you are asking yourself questions that you should already know the answers to, is a good indication that you are contemplating leaving your relationship. I know being alone can be lonely and empty. But I would rather be alone than to be with someone who makes me feel like I do not know who I am when I look in the mirror. Another quote from Ourmindfullife.com is “Sometimes you need to give up on people, not because you don’t care, but because they don’t.” There is just too much out here to be living your life in constant turmoil. Having someone tell you they love you but treat you like you are always the bad guy, why they do nothing wrong is too much to manage. You should never have to stay silent to keep peace. You should never have to stay in a relationship because bills must be paid. Toxic relationships can be deadly, to the soul, self-esteem, self-worth, and your physical life.