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The Purpose of People Being in Your Life for a Reason, a Season, and a Lifetime
Understanding the Roles of Relationships in Our Lives Throughout our journey in life, we encounter various individuals who impact us significantly. Some of these people stay for a short period, while others remain with us indefinitely. This phenomenon can be understood through the concept that people come into our lives for a reason, a season,…
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The Sacred Covenant of Marriage
Love, Commitment, and the Challenges of Change Marriage is sacred. It is a covenant with God. When we stand before our partner, professing our love, it is not just to them but in the presence of God. We promise to love and honor each other until death parts us. In the bliss of love, we…
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Run!
There is no escaping the mental abuse of a narcissistic person. If you stay in that relationship, you will lose! Narcissistic people are evil people who are controlled by an insatiable need always to be right without ever taking responsibility for anything. The women/men who fall in love with narcissists are in for a very…
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Ten Years of Silence
A tribute to my Friend It has been ten years. Ten long years of no answers, no explanations, no closure. It seems as though he was never here at all. No body to lay to rest, just a “memorial” where people who barely knew him tried to speak about his life. Did they truly know…
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Reflections on the Heaviness of Change
The Weight of History and the Light of Faith Heaviness is coming. Indecisiveness is coming. The world is changing, and things are going to become harder and clearer for those who have walked in the darkness of what is to come. We, as a people, have always had to fight harder. With one full sweep…
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Forgiving Yourself for Life Decisions Made Without Hearing God’s Voice
A Journey of Reflection and Grace Life is a tapestry woven with decisions, each one a thread contributing to the overall design of our existence. At times, these decisions are made in alignment with a higher calling, while at other moments, they stem from our own desires, fears, or misunderstandings. It is in those latter…
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The Importance of Effective Communication in Relationships
Beyond Words: Strengthening Bonds through Understanding Introduction Effective communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. It transcends mere verbal exchanges, encompassing non-verbal cues, emotional intelligence, and active listening. The inability to communicate effectively will destroy your relationship quicker than any argument. This is because arguments are often rooted in misunderstandings, misconceptions, and a lack…
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The Importance of Spending Time Alone to Heal
Understanding Oneself Through Reflection and Solitude In the journey of life, relationships play a vital role in shaping our experiences, emotions, and personal growth. However, the dissolution of a cherished relationship, be it a broken romantic partnership, a dissolved marriage, or the ending of a significant friendship, can be profoundly distressing. Such events leave an…
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The Finality of Relationships: A Path to Healing
Embracing Closure and Moving Forward There is an undeniable truth in the nature of human connections: some relationships must come to an end. When a relationship has reached its conclusion, it is paramount to recognize this finality and allow the process to unfold naturally. Attempting to salvage what is irrevocably broken can prolong pain and…
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Personal Growth Through Adversity
Finding Light in the Darkest of Times Life’s journey is often dotted with peaks and valleys, moments of joy, and periods of deep sorrow. It is in these darkest valleys that we often discover our greatest strengths and experience profound personal growth. The trials and tribulations we encounter can shape our character and lead us…