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ACEs
Before I got help, that I knew I needed to work through my life issues, I often wondered why things happened to me and why I felt the way I did about certain situations. I could not understand why I made the same mistakes and error in my judgement. I could not be that stupid.…
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Truth!
“Narcissist are excellent actors/actresses. They really know how to give a performance and people are mesmerized by their fake charm and innocence. It leaves the victims feeling deflated, bewildered and confused. It’s hard to change people’s perception of the Narcissist, because they convincing in playing victim and tainting you as the abuser.”
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The Nerve!
“Narcissists seriously believe that it is abusive of you to object to them behaving abusively towards you.”
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Say Sorry!
Do you ever hear children when they are fussing? And when one of the children hurts the other child, they yell, Say Sorry! Unfortunately, abusers and narcissist will NEVER utter that word, unless they think it is going to further their cause to control you or the situation. As you will read below “narcissism, as…
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My Son, Myself!
I watched my son suffer through alcohol and drug addiction for over 20 years. As a parent I wanted the best for all my children. I wanted them to be self-sufficient and successful in whatever field they chose to thrive in. My son went to school and graduated high school. As a child he witnessed…
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Be Free!
When I was in my abusive relationship, I thought no one else was. I thought nobody could be as stupid as I was to stay in a relationship so toxic, insane and dangerous. I kept quiet. But I realized the more I kept quiet, the worse the beatings became. I knew if I tried to…
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Do Not Ignore the Red Flags

Asia, 22 years old-beaten with a shovel, stabbed, and murdered by her boyfriend. Her friends cautioned her about this young man, but Asia loved him so much. She ignored the red flags Alexis 21, sexually assaulted and murdered by her best friend and her boyfriend. Her real friend told Alexis for 3 years not to…
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Excuses, excuses…

According to the Addiction Center, “nearly 80% of domestic violence crimes are related to the use of drugs. When a person abuses drugs, the chemicals in their brain are rewired to seek out the substance, despite any future consequences of their behavior. This can result in irrational, violent or controlling behavior within the relationship. Addiction…
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Strive to Leave
One and three women will experience physical or sexual violence in their lifetime. According to global news, domestic violence cases increased by 25-33 percent globally in 2020. Domestic violence increased 8.1% during the pandemic. Although the COVID 19 numbers have changed and lowered, that is not the case for intimate partner violence. Isolation has always…
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LIVE!
To not live in your purpose and the blueprint for your life because someone decided that you would be their mental, physical, emotional, financial, or sexual abusee is not living. FOR NOT TO LIVE IS EVIL! LIVE spelled backwards that is your life, evil, dark, empty, and alone. LIVE and get out! I promise you…