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Invisible in My Own Marriage
(excerpt from The Cracked Mirror..by Vikee) Feeling Unseen and Unknown I am married to a man who does not truly know me, despite the fact that we have been together for over twenty-five years. He believes he understands who I am because of our long history together, but in reality, he does not know me…
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The Cracked Mirror
Looking back at me is someone I don’t recognize anymore. I thought maybe it was fatigue or simple stress, but honestly, I don’t know who this person is anymore. Can you relate? Seeking to find some familiarity, something that can tell me that, it’s me! Nope, can’t find it. The mirror reflects the person looking…
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The Pain of Betrayal by Those You’ve Supported
Reflections on Hurt, Blame, and Self-Discovery Introduction Sometimes, the deepest wounds come from those we’ve spent our lives supporting. When people you care for and nurture turn their pain, mistakes, and disappointments onto you, it can leave you breathless, broken, and lost in despair. The emotional turmoil makes you question your worth, your actions, and…
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Loss of Innocence and the Path to Healing
Reflections on Personal Growth, Pain, and Spiritual Refuge The Deep Impact of Lost Innocence When those who are meant to love and protect us become the source of pain, the loss of innocence can leave profound marks on our lives. This loss is not just an emotional wound but can manifest in mental, physical, and…
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Choosing Emotional Freedom
Letting Go of Others’ Burdens to Protect Your Well-being In life, we often encounter people who, for their own reasons, act in ways that distract, hurt, or unsettle those around them. Their behaviors may be rooted in insecurities, unresolved pain, or an unwillingness to confront the work necessary for personal growth and healing. While it’s…
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Breathe Before You Break
Maintaining Inner Peace Amid Negativity In life, we often encounter people who seem determined to undermine our confidence or disturb our sense of peace. Their words and actions may be fueled by their own inner turmoil—anger, jealousy, or deep-seated insecurities they are unable to confront or control. It’s important to remember that these outbursts are…
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Renewal in the Waters: A Reflection on Pain, Faith, and Healing
Finding Spiritual Restoration through Physical Struggle Pain, like an uninvited companion, often shadows our daily steps. For those who know me, the rhythm of my life has always been shaped by dance and movement—my feet tracing stories across floors, my spirit lifted by the simple act of walking. Yet lately, with a torn meniscus in…
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The Frustration of Boundary-Crossing and Micromanagement
When Staying in Your Own Lane Feels Impossible Introduction There is a particular frustration that arises when others cannot seem to respect boundaries—when the simple act of “staying in your lane” becomes an elusive idea to those around you. Whether at work, among friends, or even in the wider world, there are individuals who drift,…
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The Art of Quiet Reflection: Listening for God’s Word and Wisdom
Nurturing Stillness for Spiritual Growth In an age defined by constant noise, relentless speed, and the ever-glowing screens of modern life, the call to be quiet and reflect stands as a gentle, yet powerful, invitation. It is in the hush of our hearts and the silence between our thoughts that we often discover the presence…
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Strength in Stillness: Cultivating Peace, Boundaries, and Self-Worth
The world will always have critics. Some will question your motives, your abilities, or your decisions. Responding to every challenge, every slight, only perpetuates the cycle of insecurity and defensiveness. Instead, the quiet power of letting your actions speak allows you to rise above the noise. It is a declaration that you do not need…
Footsteps To Freedom
A slow and neccessary walk to healing
Footsteps To Freedom 