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Reflections on the Heaviness of Change
The Weight of History and the Light of Faith Heaviness is coming. Indecisiveness is coming. The world is changing, and things are going to become harder and clearer for those who have walked in the darkness of what is to come. We, as a people, have always had to fight harder. With one full sweep
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Forgiving Yourself for Life Decisions Made Without Hearing God’s Voice
A Journey of Reflection and Grace Life is a tapestry woven with decisions, each one a thread contributing to the overall design of our existence. At times, these decisions are made in alignment with a higher calling, while at other moments, they stem from our own desires, fears, or misunderstandings. It is in those latter
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The Importance of Effective Communication in Relationships
Beyond Words: Strengthening Bonds through Understanding Introduction Effective communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. It transcends mere verbal exchanges, encompassing non-verbal cues, emotional intelligence, and active listening. The inability to communicate effectively will destroy your relationship quicker than any argument. This is because arguments are often rooted in misunderstandings, misconceptions, and a lack
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The Importance of Spending Time Alone to Heal
Understanding Oneself Through Reflection and Solitude In the journey of life, relationships play a vital role in shaping our experiences, emotions, and personal growth. However, the dissolution of a cherished relationship, be it a broken romantic partnership, a dissolved marriage, or the ending of a significant friendship, can be profoundly distressing. Such events leave an
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The Finality of Relationships: A Path to Healing
Embracing Closure and Moving Forward There is an undeniable truth in the nature of human connections: some relationships must come to an end. When a relationship has reached its conclusion, it is paramount to recognize this finality and allow the process to unfold naturally. Attempting to salvage what is irrevocably broken can prolong pain and

Hey, I’m Vikee
I am a licensed certified supervised addictions counselor, a published author, alumni of The House of Ruth Outreach Volunteer Program, and the co-owner of Montebello Medical Billing, Coding, and Consulting Company, LLC.

“One day you will rise above all the insecurities, fear, guilt, and shame, you will shed others’ opinions of you and be the Phoenix you were purposed to be!“
— Vikee