Footsteps To Freedom

There is no escaping the mental abuse of a narcissistic person. If you stay in that relationship, you will lose! Narcissistic people are evil people who are controlled by an insatiable need always to be right without ever taking responsibility for anything. The women/men who fall in love with narcissists are in for a very dark life. You will always be ridiculed, blamed, shamed, lied to, and betrayed and it is never-ending. Getting away from a narcissist is the only way to regain your sanity. Run, don’t walk to the nearest exit. Get out! The relationship will not change! It will remain a vicious cycle of abuse. Emotional wellness will never come to pass, you will never feel stable or balanced. You will pray not to hate that person because you know hatred is wrong, but it’s the only feeling that comes to mind when being with a narcissist.

You lose yourself. The person looking back at you is someone you won’t recognize anymore. It will always be something. No matter if you lose your voice, remain quiet, stay out of the way. Remember they are chameleons. They have others who think they are the kindest people and have the biggest hearts. But don’t believe the lie! They are attention hogs that will never allow anyone to distort their foolish pride. Narcissists are manipulating, deceitful, and empty people. They are deeply insecure and cannot phantom the thought of being disliked or found out for who they are.

If you start to understand that a narcissist is an evil, dark spirit that desires to kill you, you will understand how to fight. You begin to understand that you could not win because you were trying to fight with your flesh. You cannot! You have to fight spirit with spirit.
Don’t romanticize it. Don’t think you can change them. Don’t think they will change. You are only fooling yourself and prolonging the inevitable.
Don’t protect them. Don’t try and explain them. Just move on. The more you attempt to justify their actions, the deeper you sink into their web of manipulation. Remember to always realize that your worth is not determined by a distorted perception of reality. Surround yourself with people who genuinely care about your well-being and who will support you through your journey of healing. Embrace the future with open arms, where peace, joy, and self-love await you. You deserve a life free from the shackles of emotional torment.