Footsteps To Freedom

Change does not mean replace, change does not mean repeat, change does not mean for the time being, change means changing the things that you can, even if it hurts, if the change is going to make things better, you must change, don’t turn your back on you..

It is not the responsibility of your mate to suffer for what your father did not do, or your mother did not do. They were not there when your pain incurred. Fix what is wrong with you before you decide to be in a relationship. Remember that she/he is not responsible for your temper tantrums. Don’t inflict your pain on her/him because you did not or were not able to get the help you needed. It is hard to give something if you never sincerely received it. When you find yourself by yourself, take the time to do some soul searching. Ask why you accept thing things you do; ask why you think you are not worthy of being loved. I know it takes time, but time gives you an opportunity to work on yourself, love yourself enough not to be afraid to be alone, love yourself enough to know when to let go, love yourself enough to see that only you can change the outcome of your journey, no one is responsible for your happiness, only you. Change brings fear. We must overcome our fears after all they are real, their just false evidence appearing real. Fear can immobilize us but we can’t stay stagnant and we can’t stay where we are. There is no growth if there is no change. The wonderful thing about change is that it’s necessary. Change brings a brand-new opportunity to do something different, something we have never done!  Change brings us closer to the person we were always meant to be, but we must make the steps to change…and heal, and once you heal from within change will come…